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November 2002 Newsletter
Hello and welcome to the November Shaping Your Destiny newsletter
- dedicated to self-transformation and to your success.
In this issue, you'll find
- What's new at ShapingYourDestiny.com
- Winners versus Losers
- Daily Affirmation
- Achieving Your Goals
- Wealth Building Tip
- Health Tip
Enjoy this issue, and don't forget to send me any feedback, questions,
or comments! Communicate your successes and tips to everyone here
who wants to shape their destiny.
To your success,
Jason
What's New?
This month has been busy at Shaping Your Destiny. Many of you
have downloaded my e-book Study For Success. As it has been so popular,
I have now completely re-written this book, more than doubling it
in size and adding a lot more useful information to help you study
successfully.
The new e-book is called "The Power Of Effective Studying" and
can be found at
http://www.shapingyourdestiny.com/ebooks.htm
There's a new enhanced forum area, with many new topics and much
easier to use. Please take a moment to visit it and start some conversations.
You can find the forums at
http://www.shapingyourdestiny.com/forum/index.php
Some more articles have also been added to the articles section
(http://www.shapingyourdestiny.com/articles.htm). Keep your suggestions
for improvement and additions coming, and I'll endeavour to add
more to them.
Winners versus Losers
The Winner is always a part of the answer;
The Loser is always a part of the problem.
The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.
The Winner says, "Let me do it for you;"
The Loser says, "That's not my job."
The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem in every answer.
The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it's possible;"
The Loser says, "It may be possible but it's too difficult."
~Author Unknown (but a wise sage in any event)
If the grass is greener on the other side, maybe it is just being
better cared for
Daily Affirmation
Try the following affirmation 3 times every morning, and see the
fantastic changes in your life.
I recognise the infinite intelligence at work within me, and give
thanks for it. Joy, happiness, cheerfulness, and positivity are
my normal states of mind. Every day I become more and more lovable,
loving, and understanding. I think, speak, and act lovingly, peacefully,
and kindly. I now radiate love, peace, tolerance, and kindliness
to all around me. I am whole, perfect, strong, powerful, loving,
harmonious, energetic, & happy. I give thanks for the abilities
that I know I have.
Perfect health is mine, and each day, my fitness, health, vision,
and psychic senses all improve from their already peak condition.
My body & all its organs were created by the infinite intelligence
in my subconscious mind. This infinite healing presence within me
is now transforming every cell of my being, making me whole and
perfect. My vision is perfect, I am able to see clearly both near
and far. I no longer age, and am in peak condition always. I am
full of energy and vitality, and do not feel tired during the day.
I give thanks for the healing I know is taking place within me at
this time.
I like money. I love it. I use it wisely, constructively, and
judiciously. Money is constantly circulating in my life. I release
it with joy and it returns to me multiplied in a wonderful way.
It is good and very good. Money flows to me in avalanches of abundance.
I use it for good only, and am grateful for my good and for the
riches of my mind. Money flows to me freely, copiously, and endlessly.
I am forever conscious of my true worth. I give my talents freely,
and am wonderfully blessed financially. I am one with the infinite
riches of my subconscious mind. It is my right to be rich, happy,
and successful. I am debt free, and have plentiful savings and investments.
I work tax-efficiently, and give generously to good causes. I give
thanks for the riches that I know flow to me, enriching my life
and all those around me.
The infinite intelligence of my subconscious mind reveals to me
my true place in life. I have a perfect memory at my disposal, able
to recall anything and everything easily at will. My subconscious
knows all the answers I need, and will guide me to be in the right
place at the right time and to recognise the opportunities presented
to me. I give thanks for the guidance that I know I receive.
My creativity flows abundantly. I am able to create excellent
articles and books with ease. Articles and books that people will
be eager to read and to pay for. My course is flowing easily from
me and is proving to be amazingly useful to lots of people. I have
thousands and thousands of people subscribed to the course, and
it is an incredible success. I give thanks for the creativity, which
I know, flows from me.
I am an amazing success and amazingly lucky - always surprising
people with my fortuitous luck. I am happy, wealthy, wise, and at
peace. I am able to enrich the lives of those around me, and lead
a fulfilling life myself. I have an abundance of time to do everything
that I need to do. I learn new things with ease, and am able to
complete tasks quickly, efficiently, and well. I create new inventions,
web sites, books, courses, and articles that I easily sell and earn
an excellent living from. I give thanks for the amazing gifts and
abilities that I know I have.
I give thanks for the infinite intelligence within me, and am
grateful for the amazing works it does with me.
A rut is just a grave with the ends kicked out
Achieving Your Goals
You may or may not have a set of written goals. If you do not,
then I strongly urge you to make a written set of goals and clarify
what you want to achieve. Whatever the case, you may be struggling
with achieving your goals in life. In this article, you will learn
some techniques for achieving your goals.
Think of a time in your life when you achieved something you really
wanted. Did you doubt it would happen and believe that you could
not achieve it? Or did you have a solid sense of knowing that it
would happen and doubt never entered into your mind?
It was the second wasn't it?
When Richard Branson set up Virgin Airways, did he sit in his
office and wonder if it would ever work? Did Bill Gates sit in his
office wondering if anyone would want to buy his Windows product?
No, they both knew they would be successful and worked unceasingly
to make it happen.
When working to achieve your goals, you need that unerring sense
of confidence and lack of doubt in yourself. You must Know it is
going to happen and that you will succeed. We are not talking about
thinking you will succeed, believing you will succeed or knowing
you will achieve your goal. They are all intellectual forms of Knowing,
Knowing with a capital K; that solid feeling in the pit of your
stomach that you will make happen and you cannot fail. Expect it
to happen and know there is no other way. It will happen. This Knowing
gives you drive and commitment to see you through to the success
of your goal.
But how do you get this feeling? One of the best and most effective
techniques is visualisation.
You currently use the power of visualisation, probably without
even realising it. Have you ever run through what you are going
to say to someone before you have the conversation? Or seen yourself
in your mind giving a presentation before you give it?
That is the power of visualisation, and it is very potent. You
can use it not only for your goals, but for any aspect of your life.
Visualisation is something most people are unused to directing.
You will find initially that your attention will wander, but you
have to pull it back to the task at hand. It is similar to building
a muscle up through exercise - it takes time to strengthen it.
The exercise for visualising your goals is very simple, and is
as follows.
- Select the goal that you wish to work with
- Picture an image of this goal in your mind
- Visualise yourself attaining your goal. Use all of your senses
- touch, hearing, sight, smell, and taste. Really feel your success
with every fibre of your being and Know that your goal is as good
as achieved.
- Hold this image in your mind for a minimum of 10 minutes - remain
focus and positive. Challenge any doubts that rise and replace
them with positive words and images of success. If you get distracted
or your mind wanders, bring your focus back to your goal.
You can also hold this successful image in your mind as you go about
your day to day business. Keep the image there and focus on your success.
You get what you focus on - and if you focus on achieving your goal,
then you will get it. Visualisation is a method of programming the
subconscious mind for success.
With some goals you may want to keep them private. If you are
trying to get fit and your friends know you have been less than
energetic in the past when you tell them your goal, they will laugh
and joke and not believe you. This doubt and disbelief can affect
your belief in yourself and in your goal, which in turn can lead
to failure to achieve the goal.
It is hard enough to overcome our own doubts and worries without
having to also overcome those of the people around you. Keep any
goals where you may be influenced by others to yourself and let
the people around you see the successful end result.
Affirming Success
Another method for achieving your goals is to use affirmations,
which means you repeat your goal again and again to yourself. This
is another method of programming your subconscious mind, which is
the source of all action.
An affirmation is a sentence or two that is written in a positive
language with definite targets and timescales. A bad affirmation
would be "I want to lose some weight." Your subconscious looks at
this and since there is no timescale it will not leap into action.
There is also no definite target so your subconscious does not know
what to aim for. How is "some weight" defined? It is 10 pounds,
but also 1 pound and also just 1 ounce.
A good affirmation is "I want to lose 10 pounds by the end of
this year." This sends the right messages to your subconscious.
It knows that you exactly how much you have to lose (10 pounds)
and when this must be done by (the end of this year). You know precisely
what you have to do and when it has to be done by.
If the goal is to lose 10 pounds by the end of the year, we need
an action plan to get us to this goal and to make it happen. In
this case the action plan may be to reduce our chocolate intake
and increase the amount of fruits and vegetables we consume. The
action plan is made up of a series of milestones. For example, if
there are 5 months until the end of the year then our milestones
would be to lose 2 pounds each month.
Little Steps
You may have a big goal such as "To have an income in excess of
£100,000 a year by the time I am 35" (notice the goal is specific
in both the timescale and the amount and does not put an upper limit
on your earning potential.)
This goal can be very daunting to look at, perhaps even enough
for you to give up and not strive to achieve it. To overcome this,
you break your goal down into a number of smaller, more manageable
steps.
Any large goal can be broken down into a number of sub-goals,
which can then be broken down even further if necessary. Each of
the sub-goals has an associated action plan with it. Using our income
goal from above, sub-goals could be to understand taxation, to understand
investment, to start your own company, and so on.
Smaller goals are easier for you to handle, and help you to stay
on course to your main goal. You also get the satisfaction of regularly
having successes and achieving goals, which does wonders for your
belief in yourself.
All of your major goals and their associated sub-goals and action
plans need to be regularly reviewed - ideally daily. This ensures
you remain focussed on your goals and instantly know if you start
to drift away from your target. It allows you to adjust your goals
and action plan according to whether things are working quicker
or slower than planned. It also prevents you from repeating actions
and carrying out tasks that are not necessary. It keeps the goals
in the forefront of your mind, and does not allow you to forget
about them.
Achieving our goals is something we all want to do, but it involves
work. Rarely will they be given to us on a silver platter by a servant
on bended knee. Achievement requires Knowing, drive and commitment,
combined with careful and meticulous planning and a firm belief
in ourselves. With unwavering belief and commitment there is nothing
that you cannot achieve. Everything and anything is within your
grasp - if you are willing to make the commitment to achieving it.
Break away from the crowd and don't assume that because millions
of people live that way it is not the best way; it's the average
way. The people living the best way are far ahead of the crowd
Wealth Building Tip
This month's wealth building tip is about a course. There's nothing
in it for me, before you groan, apart from the satisfaction that
it may launch some of you on the road to financial freedom.
You may have heard of Anthony Robbins, the self-development guru
who changes the lives of millions of people. He does amazing things
in personal transformation, but finances are a part of this transformation,
and something that he has put a lot of effort into understanding
and learning about.
The results of this is a course called "Wealth Mastery" which
is run in various locations around the world throughout the year.
I have just come back from this and cannot say enough good things
about it.
The course is run by Tom McCarthy and Chuck Mellon. If you don't
know who they are or you doubt their credentials. Look them up on
the Internet. They are both fantastically wealthy and have no need
to work. They run this course because they love what they do and
they have a chance to help other people become financially free.
The course is 4 very intense days long, and teaches you a hell
of a lot. The first thing you learn is that the amount of money
you have is about 80% due to your psychology. They then teach you
strategies for successful investments. You learn how to invest on
the stock market and how to reduce your risk to almost zero - and
often actually play the stock market with money that isn't yours!
You learn how to invest for short and long term gains from experts
in their fields. You learn their strategies for successful investment,
which you can then apply to your investments and start on your road
to financial freedom.
It is truly amazing what they teach you in those 4 days. Whilst
there I met many wonderful people, some of whom had given up work
through what they had learnt there and were now financially free
- some of them after just 5 years! You can visit the web site http://www.wealthmastery.com
to find out more information.
If you are interested in shaping your financial destiny and want
more information on this course, please email me at Jason@shapingyourdestiny.com
or visit their web-site. Booking details are there, but if you need
any help, please contact me.
Our attitude towards life determines life's attitude towards us
Health Tip
This month we are going to discuss a tip for health that most
of us would rather avoid. It's that dreaded word "exercise".
Many of us associate this word with pain, hardship, suffering,
aching muscles, effort, and tiredness; to name but a few.
But exercise is a vital part of health. Our bodies are high performance
machines, designed for running across the steppes after woolly mammoths
;)!!
The benefits of exercise are too numerous to mention, but include
improved blood circulation, alertness, mental ability, and a great
feeling of being alive.
When I said exercise, how many of you immediately thought of a
gym - rows of exhausted men and women on running machines, desperately
trying to get "fit"?
That's one method of exercise, but is it the best for you? If
you're anything like me, you'll hate going to the gym. For me it
lowers my self-esteem as I struggle to use the machines and get
tired very quickly.
Why not try alternate methods of exercise, to find something that
you enjoy! Exercise does not have to be gruelling and something
to suffer through. It should be something you enjoy, look forward
to, and relish doing.
Instead of dragging yourself to the gym every now and again, try
going for a walk or bicycle ride instead. Try many forms of exercise;
attend classes and discover one that works for you!
Integrate exercise into your everyday life. Walk up the stairs
instead of taking the elevator; walk to the store instead of driving;
and so on. These little adjustments to your life will make all the
difference to your health and energy
I hope you've enjoyed this issue of the Shaping Your Destiny newsletter.
As a special thank you for being a valued reader of my newsletter,
I am pleased to offer you some special bonus's. These ebooks are
free for you to download and read. Enjoy them!
Guru Magic By Harvey Segal (PC only .EXE)
http://www.shapingyourdestiny.com/ebooks/gurubook.zip
As A Man Thinketh By James Allen (PDF)
http://www.shapingyourdestiny.com/ebooks/asamanthinketh.pdf
Stress Management By Dale Positive Personal Development (HTML)
http://www.shapingyourdestiny.com/ebooks/stress.zip
Have a phenomenal month, and I'll see you back here again in the
next issue.
Live your dreams!
Jason
Jason@shapingyourdestiny.com
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